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A lot of people believe that, anal sex is for gay men only. It is not true. US studies proved that, around 10% of the adult heterosexual Americans practice anal sex regularly. This means a larger number of straight people practice anal sex than gays. In fact anal sex is not a preferred sexual practice of around 40% of gay men. Just because a man likes butt play, doesn't make him gay.

Anal sex is very popular in South America. Studies and surveys found that, 40 - 50% of the South American couples practice anal sex regularly. Many of them practice to avoid pregnancy, some others practice it during menstruation, to avoid the blood, and the younger girls practice anal sex to save their virginity. .

Recent US surveys, (released by Kinsey Institute) revealed that :
     - 43% of the American women had tried anal sex at least once.
     - 40% of them enjoyed it.
     - 49% did not like it.
For the rest of them, who tried, it did not mean anything. They could not form a positive or negative opinion.

Today's younger, more adventurous, less religious generation of sexual adventurers - mainly married couples - seems more willing to accept the possibilities of anal play. In this department men and women are almost the same. But prostate gland and prostate massage can add significant amount of enjoyment to men's, butt play.

Why would anyone try to have anal sex? | Go Up |
Some gay men find anal penetration highly pleasurable and many can also experience orgasms through anal intercourse. The lining of the anal cavity is rich with nerve endings and deep penetration may allow for stimulation of the prostate gland, which many heterosexual men also find highly arousing.

What is anus?
A part of the body that some people enjoy licking, or having licked, is the anus. It is is full of nerve endings in the pelvic region. To touch these "nerve ends" might cause arousing sexual feelings. However licking the anus and rectum area is not the smartest idea, because they carry a lot of bacteria there, that is normal there, but they may cause disease or infection if they get into the mouth or stomach..

Does Anal sex hurt? Is it something like pain and pleasure?
It should not hurt. If it does hurt, you are doing something wrong. It can hurt if you don't use lubrication. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it is possible to enjoy anal sex and can be an active part of your sex life. Some people may never like it, so you should not push your partner with this issue if she/he uncomfortable with it. If it hurt, you should stop. You want to have pleasure, not pain. The relaxation is the key to enjoy anal sex.

Your butt can lie, if it hurt, you do not enjoy it, so don't do it.

What do I need to have to have anal sex? | Go Up |
To take part in anal sex you need: A willing partner, condoms, lubricants, patience. One of the must popular lubricants is KY Jelly. It is an greaseless, odorless substance. It is available at most drug stores. Today's sex shops have a big selection of lubrications. Do not use lubricants that are oil-based, such as Vaseline. Use only water base lubricants. Also make sure sure the lubricant you buy is condom compatible, and your condom is lubrication proof.

Why should I use a condom? | Go Up |
If you often change sex partners, always wear a condom. It is recommend wearing condom for casual vaginal sex too, even on your finger. A condom or a finger inserted into the anus can aid lubrication as well as protect against scratches from fingernails and rough skin that could lead to infection. Even if both you and your partner are disease-free, you should still use a condom as the rectum is home for a lot of infectious bacteria that can cause burning and infection on the penis and in the vagina if you transfer it there with your penis and or with your finger.

Is anal sex messy? | Go Up |
Anal sex should not be messy, but things can happen. If you wear condom, the clean up is easy. Regular bowel movements are the major function of the anus and rectum. If you practice anal sex your diet should be high in fiber and fruits. This will allow a bowel movement to be produced without force or effort. You and your partner should always wash thoroughly before and after anal sex. If you use a vibrator for penetration, make sure that this is washed thoroughly too, in hot soapy water with a splash of antiseptic added. You should use a condom on your vibrator too and never ever share your vibrator with anyone.

What happens when performing anal sex? | Go Up |
The anus is a tight ring of muscle at the opening of the rectum, making initial penetration the most difficult part of anal sex. The anus is designed to control the elimination of bodily waste. If you really want to perform anal sex with somebody, the best you can do check out your anus area. Insert your finger about one half-inch into your anus and press your fingertip against the side, you can clearly feel the two sphincter muscles. There is less than a quarter-inch between them.

The external sphincter is controlled by the central nervous system - just like the muscles of the hand, for example. You can readily tense and relax this sphincter whenever you want. The internal sphincter is quite different. This muscle is controlled by the involuntary or autonomic part of the nervous system, which governs such functions as heartbeat and stress response.

The internal sphincter reflects and responds to fear and anxiety during anal sex. It will cause the anus to tense up automatically even if the passive partner is trying to relax. Even if a person does feel comfortable during anal sex, he or she may still need to learn voluntary control over his or her internal sphincter in order to relax it at will. Doing so requires regularly inserting a finger, perhaps in the shower each day, and feeling the internal sphincter. Some people use a small love plug. The plug provides a unique sensation and many couples consider it an exciting addition to the bedroom.

The muscle changes spontaneously and in response to behavior. In this instance, simply paying attention is more important than trying to relax. Anyone can sooner or later learn how to control the internal sphincter. It is important to go slow during this whole procedure.

So where does the pleasure come from in Anal sex? | Go Up |
The highest concentration of nerve endings is around the anal opening itself. A finger can focus on them effectively. When an object or penis is inserted beyond the anal opening into the rectum, other pleasures are involved. The outer portion of the rectum as we mentioned above, has several nerve endings. The inner portion responds mostly to pressure. Some people enjoy the feelings of pressure and fullness once they understand that these sensations do not presage an impending bowel movement.

In men, the prostate - which is just beyond the rectal wall, a few inches in, towards the front of the body - can be a source of pleasure when massaged by a finger, an object, or a penis. Also, the lower end of the penis, or "bulb," is near the anal opening opening. It is stimulated indirectly by most types of anal sex.

About AIDS | Go Up |
Unprotected anal intercourse is the single most risky behavior in regards to AIDS. If neither you or your partner are infected with HIV (human immunodeficiency virus), you cannot get AIDS from anal sex. Almost half of American adults questioned in a nationwide sex survey believed that AIDS could be contracted from anal intercourse, whether or not one partner was infected, but this is not true. (The Kinsey Institute Survey). It is true that anal intercourse with an infected partner, without using a condom, most likely to transmit AIDS. The sensitive lining of the rectum might tear during anal intercourse, causing HIV-infected blood or semen to pass directly into a sex partner's bloodstream. Some doctors recommend not having having anal sex at all, under any circumstances. If you decide to do it, please use a condom and lots of water based lubricants.

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