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Masturbation Related Information

The #1 reason for masturbating is that it feels good and it is 100% safe (if you do it in the privacy of your home and you are alone). The other good reason is, you just have to worry about yourself. Because you do it alone (well not necessary do it alone, but you can do it alone, if you prefer) you don't have to worry about your partner. And in the end but not least masturbation is one of the greatest stress relievers.

Masturbation may help everyone to understand their own sexual nerve system. Where it is sensitive and what you enjoy the most? To know these things will help you in your sex play with your partner.

People usually swing, because they need variety in their sex life. You can masturbate in the presence of your partner or you can masturbate each other, and you can watch each other masturbate. For example for men it can be very helpful at swingers parties after the first or second orgasm. Watching the women masturbate is very erotic and will turn most of the men on again. If it wont help, the lady should perform masturbation on the man and sooner or later he will be ready for action again. The women are different. A large number of them are unable to reach orgasm with traditional penis-vagina penetration. In this case the male should spice up the intercourse with his hand. During sex - he should play with her clitoris.

If you are a women how should you masturbate?

You can do anything that feels good. Touch the sensitive parts of your body. For starters play with your nipples. After lightly rub your clitoris with your panties on. Cotton panties might feel better rubbing against your clitoris than synthetic. When you are "hot" and your pussy produced some natural lubricant take off you panties and finger yourself. If your vagina is dry try lightly stroke your clitoral hood and play with your anus area. Lots of nerve endings are there and they are very sensitive. But you have to be very careful! You do not use the same finger in your anus and in your pussy. If you do so, you'll get a nasty infection. In your anus is all kinds of bacteria that's okay there, but they definitely not okay in your vagina. You can use rubber on your finger, but you need to change them. The best method is use one hand for your butt and one hand for your vagina. So is your pussy getting juice? If not use lubricant or just suck your finger. Right now you just have to find the right rhythm and right angel with your finger. You should think about something very erotic, for example your most erotic night or the best guy in your life. Apply the right amount of pressure on you clitoris and you will have an orgasm very soon. Of course if you have sex toys, vibrators or dildo, use it. You can reach your G point with a good vibrator. It will make you cum at in no time. Also lots of women masturbate in the bath tap under the running water (they keep run the water on their clitoris). Once you had a climax you should try again. Remember practice makes perfect.

Once you know your body, teach your partner how to use it. If you have a first time partner don't be shy, let him know what body part of yours are sensitive and he will make your night unforgettable.

Men And Masturbation

The simplest way to masturbate for a man is to wrap his fingers around the shaft of his penis, similar as holding a hammer, apply some pressure and move it up and down. Pick up the rhythm and think about the women he does have crush on or something very erotic. Some men just can only reach orgasm with masturbation if they watch porno movies. Nothing is wrong with that. He won't go blind. Many men use lubricant. It is not necessary, but if you decide to use one, you should use the right one. Vaseline wasn't made for this kind of activity. It is possible to buy water based love making lubricant in any drugstore.

The other masturbation method is inserting the penis in something vagina like. However, every men should be very careful before inserting his penis in anything. Hospitals often give emergency treatment to release men who trapped himself by the penis. It is extremely embarrassing to explain what happened and usually very painful the release. In the today's sex toys market it is easy to buy toy for men. Our advise, men who does not trust his hand, should buy a good quality sex toy, and he do not have to go to the hospital.

If you are a male and your female partner performs masturbation on you she can use the same technique what she might use during oral sex. If you are a lucky guy and two ladies perform masturbation on you, you definitely should play with one of the ladies.

Our final advice for men: Train yourself while masturbating to hold back your orgasm. This will help you to hold it back in actual intercourse when you need to delay it until your female partner is ready to cum.

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