How many swingers are there?

Swinging tends to be popular...

As swinging tends to be very popular and more popular day by day, no one really can be certain how many people are involved. According to the latest worldwide statistic more than 10 million people say openly "I am a swinger". With out numbers we can say that, there are more swingers than you could hope to meet in several lifetimes, and the numbers grow daily.

What sort of people are we likely to meet in swinging?
Any type, any age, any race and any occupation.

How can I start?
The best way is to going directly to a swingers club. There will be real people less pressure, and more options. All of them are there for the same reason. Looking for adult fun. And, don't just go once, there will probably be different people in attendance at different times. If you can't find clubs nearby or simply looking for a new experience, try the Internet. You are reading this title now so you already know how to find competitive partner on the net! Browse through this site and try us!

Where to I should post our personal ad?
It's easy enough to find sites that claim to be meeting places for swingers, its too easy, in fact, for there are hundreds out there. Our best advice, try us. You can try us free. You will have one full page ad and to the other page you can post a picture. You will have a private mail box and you can leave a voice mail too. When your trial period is over, you can make a decision, take it, or leave it. No questions will be asked. If you do not like our service try to avoid web sites that aren't honest up front about their requirements and charges. Finally, we suggest that a site that keeps pestering the viewer with additional windows or that is difficult to exit is probably not going to prove as sincere as you might prefer. Before you post your ad please read our ad writing ideas.

What about safe sex?
Swinging is as safe as you want it to be! Of course is some risk are there, but in the today's world is risks are everywhere! Condom usage among swingers varies widely. At clubs that have a very open membership, where people often have sex with folks they've never met before, condoms are quite common. But, you just never can tell. So, even if you believe that condoms are the antithesis of intimacy, we advise packing your rubbers wherever you go.

Are swingers bisexual?
This depends on their gender. There seems to be more bisexual females. It is really hard to say numbers here but some women enjoy playing with women, but prefer men for sex. Some others sometimes will play with, women and some find the idea distasteful. Men are pretty much the other way around. You could swing for a long time and never run across a man who preferred sex with men over sex with women. Very few of swingers men would admit that they are bisexual.

If swinging is a couple's activity, why do clubs allow single people to attend?
Many clubs do not allow singles, others only allow them on certain nights, some allow single females but not single males, and others allow both, but usually with some restrictions on the number of single males. The higher rate of bisexuality among women is the rationale most often stated for permitting single females. The higher endurance of women is the rationale most often stated for permitting single males. We suspect, however, that the higher amounts of money to be made by charging single males more than the normal admission is the real reason that many clubs follow this practice. [Expressing this view will no doubt cost us some "friends" in the business, but our sense of fairness and equality demands it. If greed is not the motive, then single females and males should only be admitted in equal numbers and for an equal price.]

Is it a good idea to invite my swinging friends to a party with my non-swinging friends?
Are the swingers really friends? If so, you should certainly be able to trust them not to do anything rude or revealing at your party. Are the non-swingers really friends? If so, you surely have told them about your lifestyle and they will treat any of your other friends with courtesy. But, if these folks are simply social acquaintances, and they do not know anything about your swinging lifestyle, then you will need to give the matter more consideration.

What about my job? Aren't I putting it at risk by swinging?
It depends on where do you live and work. Some North American cities are very conservative. It has happened before people have lost their jobs because their swinging life was discovered. I don't think it will happen today if you do not mix work with your personal life. Sometimes police raids on clubs have happened, in conservative cities, but almost never are the clientele given any trouble, just the operators. Swingers we have known include doctors, dentists, lawyers, teachers, media personalities, high-ranking military officers and intelligence personnel, and members of several local police departments. Some were more cautious than other, but they all managed to enjoy themselves. If you have a sensitive job, you should choose your partner very carefully and never from your work place.

What if I meet someone in the swingers club I know?
Nothing. Anyone you meet is there too, for the same reason... Having fun. So say hello and enjoy yourselves. The best advice is, sometimes is good to have a bad memory. In this case if you left the club, you should not remember who were the people inside and what they did with who...

How can we be sure we’ll like swinging?
You can’t if you will not try. Most of the swingers couples have an unpleasant swinging experience. Usually it happen with new couples. That’s okay. Figure out what went wrong and try again. If you or your partner still do not like it, give it up. Never push your partner.

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