Swingers Party Rules

What should you do if somebody invited to you to an erotic swingers party?

Respond to all Invitations. All invitations should be answered in a week. It doesn't mean reply only if you plan to attend. Good etiquette and good social courtesy demand you respond, by calling, writing (email) to say clear yes or no.

Bring something or don't?
Never go empty handed to someone's house party. Ask from the host if there is something you can bring and ask the dressing code too. If everyone will wear pajamas, you should not wear a fancy dress.

At the party:
The most important thing is to have a good time and enjoy yourself. Relax, even if you do not know everyone there. Try to become as at ease as you would be at charity bingo. Don't hesitate to introduce yourselves to other people, but don't be pushy. Be prepared to handle rejection but don't take it personally. It is important to remember that personal choice is the right of every individual and to respect that right is only common courtesy. Learn how to accept "no thank you" graciously. Your approach, which should be the same as it would be at the charity bingo party, is a key factor to your acceptance as a desirable partner. There are several variations to swinging and it is important that you and your mate decide, in advance, those which you like and dislike. Some couples prefer to be alone, while others prefer to be with other couples, etc. Establish your own rules, but please decide on them before you go that house party. Not only establish, but keep those rules!

Alcohol and drugs:
No drugs at all. Period. When it comes to alcohol, most of the swingers do not mind a drink or two, to calm the nerves. That's fine, but drink in moderation. If you want to get drunk, you shouldn't go to swinger's house party. Over drinking may hamper your physical abilities as well as may offend or turn other people off to you.

Sex... and safe sex:
It is up to you to protect yourselves as well as your partners. But with the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases unprotected sex is unacceptable. The use of condoms should not offend anybody.

About cleanliness:
Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than a bad body smell. I don't say that you should take a shower 5 times a night, but be clean at anytime. Period. Be prepared for everything. Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or a robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, intimate cleansing articles, condoms, etc.

At the end:
If you are a couple, go together - leave together. Never leave with out your mate!

Say thanks:
The social courtesy of a "Thank-You Note"' or phone call to someone whose hospitality you enjoyed means a lot to most people. You should say thanks even, if the party wasn't the best party in your life. Always is a next time and the host will surely remember you when planning the next event.

At the party:

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