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Safe Sex Related Information

If you are an active swinger you should remember the "Swingers Golden Rules". Safer sex or no sex! It is fact, there is no 100% safe intercourse with often changed sex partners. But with a little effort, there is a way to make it as safe as possible!

If you go to the swing club or to the party take some extra condoms with you. The night is long and you or your friends might need them. You should set up your rules before the party with your spouse or permanent partner (condom, no condom, same room fun, group sex, etc). When several horny people are naked and ready for intercourse, there is no time to discuss things like condom use. If you hook up with new partners let them know -- no condom -- no fun. If they refuse to wear one, let them go. Keep your head cool and do not break your rules in the heat of the moment.

About condoms for him

Condoms come in various sizes, types and colors. Select the right one. Be sure that what you selected is a proper fit. It is nice to have a big man hood, but if you buy a bigger condom than you need, you have to fight with it to keep it on, then it is useless.

Buy pre-lubricated latex condoms. A thinner condom is better. Skin condoms are thinner than latex, but they do not block the HIV virus. If more lubricant is desired use only water base products as K-Y jelly. Never use Vaseline and any other petroleum based products. They will damage the latex and the virus might get through.

To protect yourself and your partner you must to use your condom properly. Wear condoms for any genital to genital contact. Don't touch her bare vagina with your penis with out a condom. Touching the women's external vaginal tissues with un protected penis spreads viruses and diseases. The condom must be unrolled completely over the penis before touch her genital area. The condom must remain covering the penis, until it is removed from the vagina. You should hold the base of the condom against the penis and pull both out together. Also you should check the base of the condom several times in intercourse too, especial if you have rough sex, just to be sure it is properly on.

Click here to see a picture of properly "condom-ized" cock.

Some men use two condoms at the same time. It help maintain the erection longer. Some others use one size smaller. It slows the circulation to the penis and it numbs the sensation and keep the intercourse going longer. Be careful with this option, because the condom must cover the penis all the way...

If you can not reach orgasm with condom on, try to use condoms with ribs. Every ribs and every thrust going to give a tickling massage to your penis. Spice things up a bit. Ask her to help you to roll the condom over your cock. She can use all her imagination (and her lips and tongue) to rubberized your cock. Use a flavored lubricant and she can deep-throat you. It definitely will help!

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More safe sex info

For your increased safety you should not brush or floss your teeth just before going down on a new partner. If you think your breath is not fresh enough, use a mint mouthwash, or mint sugar free candy. If you are male, you should try to perform oral sex on her with mint anyway. Mint on the tongue will make her orgasm bigger. If you brush or floss your teeth you may open your gums. Open wounds, even the smallest one is a great risk to pick up, or pass over some kind of bacterial infection, or something worse. So you should brush or floss your teeth a few hours before you plan on playing. A couple of hours will make your gums okay. Also you have to watch for cold sores. If you have cold sore on your lip or in your mouth you should not go down on anyone. Cold sores or fever blisters are just friendlier names for oral herpes, caused by a Herpes Simplex Virus-1. Genital herpes is caused by Herpes Simplex Virus-2. So those two bad guys aren't the same, but both of them cause life long trouble on the genital areas. Studies have shown that nearly one-third of genital herpes cases are caused by Herpes Simples Virus-1. Most of the time it is transmitted by oral sex, or contracted from the person with the infected mouth. Anyone with cold sores on the lip or in the mouth should stay a way from oral sex until the sore is 100% gone.

About STD

Sexually transmitted diseases are uncommon among swingers. Most swingers do know, how important it is to protect themselves. If you wear condoms properly, chances are slim that you will contract AIDS or any other STD through this lifestyle. If you keep changing your sex partners, and practice unprotected sex, you should get STD tested every 4 - 6 months for your own peace of mind. Also if you think you picked up something, don't hesitate, visit your doctor. Most common sexually transmitted diseases can be cured.

We hope you realized how important in this lifestyle to practice safe sex only!

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